tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18489782.post3865311227070215636..comments2023-09-22T03:51:51.823-05:00Comments on A Family, Created: Pregnancy Guiltsuzzcq70http://www.blogger.com/profile/01703134888407495509noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18489782.post-29232955528727062102008-01-23T10:42:00.000-05:002008-01-23T10:42:00.000-05:00I came via the creme. That was such a moving post...I came via the creme. That was such a moving post. It is true if leaves scars in many ways. Thanks again for this post.Kathy Vhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15658449843683175580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18489782.post-22112982944646290472008-01-18T11:10:00.000-05:002008-01-18T11:10:00.000-05:00Here through the Creme list; I'm starting to consi...Here through the Creme list; I'm starting to consider embryo adoption, so I'll be looking around on your blog to read your story!andrea_jenninehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11450998281852176512noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18489782.post-18520035994279937832008-01-01T12:51:00.000-05:002008-01-01T12:51:00.000-05:00I guess we do have survivor's guilt, even amongst ...I guess we do have survivor's guilt, even amongst each other. I do notice that I will post less about my pregnancy joys than my pregnancy fears for fear of offending someone...MrsSpockhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10792687516201324640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18489782.post-64708865256969971272007-02-26T17:40:00.000-05:002007-02-26T17:40:00.000-05:00You are PG, but you still have fertility problems....You are PG, but you still have fertility problems. That will never go away. I am over getting PG, but just this past weekend I was telling someone my story and they said you can really hear the anger and frustration of the whole process in the way I tell it. So no matter how many kids we "adopt" the infertility will always remain the same.Alihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11662152999339229958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18489782.post-44666444887698656262007-02-26T11:16:00.000-05:002007-02-26T11:16:00.000-05:00Like Jen said being one that "has made it" is an a...Like Jen said being one that "has made it" is an amazing experience. Since I got PG naturally and not from IF makes the PG seem surreal to me. I didn't feel the guilt until my SIL(who has been TTC for a year and has done a couple IUI's) had a hard time with me being PG. It made me mad that after all my struggles someone would make me feel guilty. Now when a stranger remarks about my PG I feel the need to tell them what a long road it was. I guess the pain of IF is always there.azjennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13346645417088426814noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18489782.post-8505445808220987982007-02-24T19:32:00.000-05:002007-02-24T19:32:00.000-05:00Yes...IF does leave deep and permanent scars. But...Yes...IF does leave deep and permanent scars. But you have paid your dues sweetie. It is your turn. I doubt the guilt will go away. But just don't let it grow large enough to overwhelm the amazement, joy, and excitement of the pregnancy and the little boy inside of you!<BR/><BR/>I for one am thrilled to be able to stand next to you, my IF sister, and yell "Hell yeah she made it!"<BR/><BR/>Lots of love....Earthchild618https://www.blogger.com/profile/12988637824344419469noreply@blogger.com